The 10 Commandments for Effective Weight Management

In this article, I will share with you the ten simple rules to look and feel the best you have ever felt in your life!  There is no reason why you cannot have it all.  Weight management should not be an exercise in extreme denial and severe punishment.  Banish all thoughts of lack and embrace joyfully the life that was meant to be lived to the fullest!

1. Thou shalt nurture your spirit
How much time do you spend each day nurturing yourself? Do you do something each day that makes you smile or inspires you so that you feel good about yourself? When was the last time you laughed so hard that you cried? Remember how it was when you were a child and there was no holding back? Life was filled with infinite possibilities and you were free to create whatever you wanted in your mind’s eye? You were courageous and your view of the world was simple. You never wasted a moment on the past and you approached the future fearlessly and you were always deeply engaged in the present moment. How has the world changed since you were a child? Probably not that much but you have changed and complicated everything. What happened? When was the last time you spent time day dreaming and smiling to yourself? Nourishing your spirit is the first step to successful long term weight loss. How do you nourish your spirit each day? If your answer is, “No, I am too busy to engage in such nonsense.”, think again, you might be missing out on some of the finest things in life that money cannot buy – loving yourself and being happy. Start by asking yourself what are the things in your life you would love to do that make you happy and relaxed? Make a list and be sure to include some of these activities in your busy schedule everyday.

2. Thou shalt eat wholesome, natural foods
“When you sit to dine with a ruler, note well what is before you and put a knife to your throat if you are given to gluttony. Do not crave his delicacies, for that food is deceptive” Proverbs 23:1-3
Even in biblical times, there were clear warnings about the dangers of rich foods! How much processed foods do you eat in the day? How much of these foods come carefully wrapped in lovely paper wraps, boxes, tins, plastic bags, cartons, PVC bottles and glass bottles? All with mandatory food labels on them indicating the amounts of macronutrients and calories per serve or per 100g portions. We have an obsessive ‘love affair’ with rich foods that is threatening the health of the entire Western world. How often do you go back to basics and eat the “foods of the earth” as they were meant to be eaten – unprocessed, raw! The dietary guidelines clearly state you must eat 5 serves (cups) of uncooked vegetables and 2 serve of fruits each day and 4 serves of calcium-rich foods (like two small tubs of yoghurt and two glasses of low fat milk). Imagine if this was the foundation of your daily eating plan, how much more other foods can you include in your diet? I’d dare to say not much more as you would be too full to eat too much more of anything else. That makes weight loss a breeze!

3. Thou shalt have a trim tummy
How big is your tummy? Excess abdominal fat is not only ugly but also a serious risk factor to your health. There are two types of abdominal fats namely subcutaneous and visceral fat. The former refers to fat under the skin and on top of the abdominal muscles while the latter refers to fat found beneath your abdominal muscles, surrounding your vital internal organs. Visceral fat is much more dangerous than abdominal fat as this fat can enter the liver from these abdominal stores and cause “insulin resistance”. Insulin resistance signals the pancreas to produce more insulin in the vain effort to push circulating blood sugars into cells. This often sets up a viscous cycle leading to the use of drugs that supply even more insulin. A large quantity of circulating insulin is associated with high blood pressure, diabetes, heart disease, stroke, sleep apnoea, certain cancers and degenerative diseases! How much does your waist measure? Get the tape measure out right now and measure yourself across your belly button. Men with waist measurements greater than 94cm and women with waist measurements greater than 80cm are predisposed to chronic diseases! Take action now to reduce your waist before it is too late.

4. Thou shalt be active
Do you make an effort to move at least 30minutes a day? If you cannot exercise for 30 minutes, just combine 3 lots of 10minutes of moderate to intense exercise. That will also do. This is the bare minimum to maintain basic fitness levels. They say you get out of life what you put in. So, for the extraordinary result you so desire try the following: for example, if your office is located on level 9 of a high-rise building, it will take approximately 10-15 minutes to walk up the stairs of the building. Do this 4 times a day (when you arrive, go out for lunch, return from lunch and when you go home). It will easily total 1 hour of exercise! How easy is that? Get the “hot bod” you have always wanted without even trying! Who needs to go to a gym regularly? If you do nothing else but this, I assure you, you will not recognize yourself after one year. Transforming your activity naturally leads to transforming your food choices and the result will be phenomenal.

5. Thou shalt drink alcoholic beverages in moderation only
Men should not drink more than 4 standard drinks and women not more than 2 standard drinks a day. The house wine you get at your restaurant is almost 2 standard drinks. A can of beer constitutes 1.5 standard drinks. How many and how often are you drinking? Do you have two alcohol-free days a week? Alcohol has more than twice as many calories as fat. Naturally the more you drink the fatter you will be!

6. Thou shalt eat until you are comfortably full
How often do we stuff our faces till we cannot walk? Is it three times a year – at Christmas’, New Years’ and on your birthday? If that is all then it is not a problem. If it happens 3 times a day then you have a serious over-eating disorder at hand, you have to seek professional help. A psychologist or dietitian specializing in eating disorder would be my first port of call. Take a moment today to go internally and feel your body cues. You will know it when you are comfortably full, that is about 7/10 full. That is the point you should stop eating and walk away from the table. Practice this everyday at every meal. I would be very surprised if you do not lose some weight or even a lot of weight without changing anything else!

7. Thou shalt stay hydrated
Most people do not drink enough fluid in the day. Ideally we should aim for 8 glasses of fluid or 2 liters of fluid a day. Next time you feel “hungry”, pause for a moment and ask yourself if you are really hungry or thirsty. Often thirst is mistaken for hunger and you end up eating excessively.

8. Thou shalt eat slowly
How fast are you eating? Studies have found that the speed at which someone eats their food is often directly proportional to their body size. The faster you eat the more likely you are to be over weight. Tonight when you sit down to have dinner, watch the wall clock and check how much time you take to eat. You should take at least 20 minutes - chew your food thoroughly before swallowing. If you take 30 minutes to eat that is even better. It tells me you are practicing mindful eating and most likely enjoying your food and much less likely to overeat and get heart burn. The act of chewing food thoroughly tends to make one feel more satisfied and fuller.

9. Thou shalt eat at the table
How often do you eat on the run? Do you eat all edible morsels from your children’s leftovers? Do you eat a Mars bar at the bus stop because you felt ‘peckish’? Would you polish up a slice of cheese, half a leftover poppet of fruit juice, 5 snakes, 3 biscuits and ½ a packet of chips on the run and discount them as part your caloric intake because they were not eaten at the dining table? Well, if you are serious about losing weight, stop eating on the run at once and have 3 main meals a day properly at the dining table!

10. Thou shalt not eat when overly hungry
How often do you come home from work in the late afternoon and plunder your refrigerator and pantry? Do you feel so hungry that you can eat every edible morsel in your path? Well, stop pronto when you are in that state. Drink a glass of water and eat a fruit like an apple (something that requires a lot of chewing before swallowing to starve off the hunger pangs), regroup and then start planning a proper dinner. That way you are less likely to overeat and choose unhealthy food choices.
 
Conclusion
So these are the ten commandments for effective weight management. What do you think? Have you had your own experiences of what works for you? Which parts do you find easier and which ones harder? Any area you would like me to expand on in a future article?
Please leave me a comment below.

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